Co-authored-by: liezl200 <lie@fb.com>

- no more FP16Trainer, we just have an FP16Optimizer wrapper
- most of the distributed code is moved to a new wrapper class called DistributedFairseqModel, which behaves like DistributedDataParallel and a FairseqModel at the same time
- Trainer now requires an extra dummy_batch argument at initialization, which we do fwd/bwd on when there's an uneven number of batches per worker. We hide the gradients from these dummy batches by multiplying the loss by 0
- Trainer.train_step now takes a list of samples, which will allow cleaner --update-freq

Update readme with WMT'18 model (#433)

Oss master

also don't crash if param does not recieve grads